A Boy Mom's World

  I came across this topic online and thought of sharing these to you. This was shared by a couples' therapist and it made an impact on me, I instantly answered the questions and also asked my husband to answer as well. We got to know each other on a different level.  If you were able to answer at least 9 out of 12, you are in a really good place in your relationship. 1. What makes them laugh and cry? 2. What are they passionate about? 3. How did their family affect their growth? 4. What makes them mad? 5. Do they have spiritual beliefs and how does it affect their life choices? 6. What are their defining moments? 7. What is the most important to them? 8. How would they define success? 9. What kind of support do they need when they're stressed or sad? 10. What are they most proud of about themselves? 11. What can instantly light them up inside? 12. How do they recharge their emotional batteries? Go and ask these questions to your spouse, you might be surprised when you compare...

  According to google Financial Planning is the long-term method of wisely managing your finances so you can achieve your goals and dreams while at the same time negotiating the financial barriers that inevitably arise in every stage of life. In order to create a sound financial plan, goals must be first established. Essentially, Financial Planning helps us to be in control of our income, expenses, and investments so that we can achieve our goals. So where do we start? Here are the 4 Financial Goals that you can start with. 1. Income Protection - According to study, if you are a breadwinner or the provider of the family, you at least must have 10x of your annual income set aside, this way just in case anything happens to you as a breadwinner, the family that you leave behind will have at least 10 years worth of the income to use. This will give them the chance or the time to recover from the loss and be able to establish a life without the breadwinner. 2. Health Coverage - This one...

  Our son Mason is a very picky eater, he doesn't eat anything aside from bread. That's it, Bread. He likes all kinds of bread. He does not eat rice, vegetables, the only fruit that he eats are bananas.  You might be asking, how is he getting his nutrition when he eats like that? Ok, hear me out, he still breastfeeds and his pedia gave him vitamins to take everyday. So far, he's never been sick aside from the usual cough and colds and fever that goes away after a few days.  I have listed here some of the stories that was told to us to not do if when don't want to have a picky eater. 1. Do not feed them Cerelac or any processed baby food - We never fed both our kids this, but Mason still turned out to be a picky eater.  2. Having a picky eater is the parents' fault - Yeah no, turns out there are no single explanation for having a picky eater. Expert says that it is a combination of genetics and environment. Picky eaters are typically not willing to try food which can...

  I have been a mom for almost 5 years now. Dylan will be turning 5 this February while Mason is turning 3 in June.  As I journey through this path called motherhood, here are the things that I have learned having to take care a 4 year old and a 2 year old. 1. At this age, they are very explorative and wants to test their abilities, so they will always go up anywhere they can climb and try if they will be able to jump from there. At first they always give me mini heart attacks, I try to stop them from doing it, but they just can't be stopped. I just let them try and I just make sure they are safe and remind them to just be careful with what they are doing. We already had one trip to the ER, nothing serious though, just wanted to make sure that everything is ok the time - will make another entry for what made us go to the ER. 😅 2. 2 year olds are super cute. Everything that they do are cute - I cannot seem to be mad at 2 years old even though they ruin everything, throw food, ...

 I have two very active boys and sometimes I don't even know what to do with their energy. 😅 They love to run, climb, jump, sing, dance, play pretend, run, jump and jump again. The house never seems to stay quiet because if it is not them who are shouting, it will be mom shouting at them not to climb on the window or the table. Most of the time I cannot even hear myself think. So what do we do with all these energy? We sometimes take them outside. Aside from going to the park or the playground, we take them for a little ride and bring them to: 1. Kidzoona - Here they get to play whatever they want without any need for mom to shout because it is very safe for them.  2. Kindercity - I haven't been inside this one but their daddy said that it is a lot bigger than kidzoona and very tiring for adults. 😂 This is Dylan's current favorite indoor play area, ideal for bigger kids, at least 4 yo, I guess.  3. Theme Park (Enchanted Kingdom) - Last year we purchased a 2-year pass an...

  Traveling has always been our favorite bonding as a family. Both me and my husband's family loves to travel (local), So when we got back together in 2015 and already have the means to do it, we packed our bags and just went anywhere we could think of.  Our eldest son's first travel was when he was only 3 months old. We applied for his passport the time we got his PSA Birth Certificate - he was one month old. From there, he was able to travel locally and abroad.  Traveling with a baby is never a walk in a park, so why are we doing this?  Here are some of the reasons why we travel with our kids and why you should too.  1. Traveling is good for our Mental and Physical Health. Traveling reduces stress, improves our moods, and it generally enhance our physical strengths and makes us more mentally agile as we both use our minds and bodies to figure out how to navigate a new town or city. 2. Traveling improves our communication skills. When we travel to a different c...

We did not completely remove screen time in our house, we still let them watch sometimes, but is now very controlled. They are no longer allowed to watch on their own. Before they have access to youtube kids and they can watch whatever they feel like watching. They learned a lot by watching, but it is not worth it (for me). All of the things that they see on the screen, we can do with them. I only let them watch 1 movie a week - in Disney+. We sometimes watch together, we choose a family movie.  Here are the Top 7 Activities I let my boys do everyday.  1. Pretend Restaurant - My boys love to pretend that they have a restaurant and ask me to order food from them and they will prepare it for me. They use play doh to make food such as fries, burger, ice cream, fried chicken, etc. I have to pretend to order, eat, and pay and then do it a hundred more times. 😆 2. Pretend Hospital - Sometimes I am the doctor, but most of the time, I am the patient that always needs vaccine. 😅 3. S...