12 Important Questions That You Should Ask Your Partner

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I came across this topic online and thought of sharing these to you. This was shared by a couples' therapist and it made an impact on me, I instantly answered the questions and also asked my husband to answer as well. We got to know each other on a different level. 

If you were able to answer at least 9 out of 12, you are in a really good place in your relationship.

1. What makes them laugh and cry?

2. What are they passionate about?

3. How did their family affect their growth?

4. What makes them mad?

5. Do they have spiritual beliefs and how does it affect their life choices?

6. What are their defining moments?

7. What is the most important to them?

8. How would they define success?

9. What kind of support do they need when they're stressed or sad?

10. What are they most proud of about themselves?

11. What can instantly light them up inside?

12. How do they recharge their emotional batteries?

Go and ask these questions to your spouse, you might be surprised when you compare your answers to theirs.

Disclaimer: These questions are not mine, just sharing this from a video that I have watched. Credits go to the creator.


Love, 

Karla

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