How to Attract the Right People in Your Life

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 We come across a lot of people in our lifetime - some may help you, drain you, teach you a lesson, some you teach a lesson.

The kind of person that comes to your life depends on how similar your level of energy and vibrations are. If your energy don't match, you will find these people irritating, boring, draining, or even depressing. They just basically don't match to you, we may call them the "wrong" people. But if your levels match, you will find these people interesting, fun, uplifting and positive. We may call these people the "right" people. 

Now how do you attract the right people into your life? Here are some of the steps that might help:

1. Know yourself. Know what you like, what you hate, what makes you happy, miserable, what makes you feel uplifted, energized. 

2. Know your personality type. Are you the type that loves to go out and meet and talk to new people and instantly get along with them or are you the type who takes a while to warm up to new people. 

3. Come to terms with your core personality traits. Accept who you are. Accept your past. Accept your mistakes. Accept your roots. These are the things that you cannot change and is already hardwired into you. 

4. Throw away your fake persona and accept yourself for who you are. Let go of the thoughts of what others might think of you, this will just disable you to do things and achieve things and it will lead you more to the wrong people.

5. Start putting yourself first. Love yourself more, this way you exude the energy that you want to imbibe in your life. Right people will see this and will be attracted to you.

6. Reduce engaging with the wrong people. Stop putting yourself in a situation that you do not like and you are not happy. Remove the people that causes you pain and misery.

7. Believe that there are good people out there. If you believe that people are good, there is a good chance that they are the ones who will come into your life. Stop thinking that everybody is out there to take advantage of you or hurt you. The more you think about those kinds of people, the more they will come to you. 

8. Believe that you deserve to be with good people. Subconscious beliefs are powerful and they can keep you from attracting good things into your life. Believe that you are worthy and enough. Stay aware of your thoughts, specially those that are limiting you. Always be mindful of what you think about yourself. 

9. Visualize. Visualization is one of the most powerful ways to attract good things into your life. Spend time visualizing yourself with the right people. Feel the freedom and the energy that you'll feel when you are with them. 

10. Take Action. The right action will come naturally to you once you know yourself and being able to discard all the limiting thinking patterns in your mind. For instance, you might get a sudden inspiration to travel, to attend a conference, join a program or to take with a stranger. If it comes naturally and if it feels right, go ahead and do it. 

The important thing is to continue to spend time knowing and understanding yourself. The more self aware and self assured you become, the better your chances of attracting the right person into your life.

Rooting for you!

Love, 

Karla

Location: Manila, Metro Manila, Philippines

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